Posts by zoeymaster
Macro vs. Micro
For years, I’ve worked to drive change at the macro level when my clients transition into supported living— advocating with social services, DSHS, and providing training and coaching to caregivers. Recently, though, I’ve shifted more focus to the micro level, helping my clients build resilience and better manage the challenges of supported living and the…
Read MoreWhat I Noticed: relaxed vs tired
Don’t assume yawning means tired.When I notice that my client has yawned, I pause and appreciate the yawn. Rarely does it mean that they are tired or not paying attention. Most of the time it means they are settling in and co-regulating with me. Neuroscience: Yawning is often associated with fatigue, but it can also be a…
Read MoreAccepting the Facts: Navigating Client Decisions
In my line of work, I’ve often encountered clients who find themselves stuck in a cycle of saying no to various requests or situations. How do we move forward? Well first we must “accept the facts” and then acknowledge out feelings and one crucial aspect of my approach is emphasizing that clients are not obligated…
Read MoreA regulated prediction vs. worry
In our journey towards self-regulation, making predictions can be a powerful tool. But here’s the thing: not all predictions are created equal. There’s a difference between a regulated prediction and plain old worry prediction. As a somatic behavioral coach, I often guide my clients through this distinction. Regulated prediction involves a thoughtful assessment of potential…
Read More“Listen to be impacted”
Over the recent weekend, I had the privilege of attending a workshop led by Marie Thouin, and she shared some insights that truly resonated with me: “listen to be impacted.” While we often hear about the importance of active listening – nodding, paraphrasing, and showing attentiveness – Marie emphasized something deeper. She urged us to…
Read MoreInnovating out of necessity
Did you know back in 2009 I started a side business helping neurodivergent children and adults use the iPad? Innovating out of necessity, I devised various solutions to make iPads more user-friendly for my clients. From crafting home button covers to designing gloves with the pointer finger exposed for precise interaction, every invention aimed to…
Read MoreAssume that I can Video
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Read MoreHappy solstice and holiday season
Today is the winter solstice and I am filled with gratitude and appreciation. To those around me, I extend heartfelt wishes for a happy solstice and a holiday season filled with warmth and connection. I hope this new year is one that is filled with profound joy and proud moments. May all your uncomfortable situations…
Read MoreUnderstanding Dynamic Interactions: Navigating Different Roles in Personal Relationships
In the realm of personal and professional connections, interactions can often take on varied forms, shaping the way we communicate with one another. Recently, I’ve been reflecting on the multifaceted nature of these interactions, especially in the context of my work with clients. One of my clients, in particular, experiences a range of communication styles…
Read MoreI am going to try it.
I’ve heard of this product, Sensate. Basically it’s a device that promotes relaxation and mindfulness through the power of sound and vibration therapy, using cutting-edge technology with the principles of ancient healing practices. I’m very intrigued and curious. I’ve asked to borrow one for a bit, as it’s pretty expensive. I want to see what…
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